Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Umama omncinci kudala ejonge idick yonyana wakhe kwaye wathatha ithuba. Xa kungekho mntu endlwini wayemqhatha lula ukuba alale naye. Kwaye njengoko ndiyibona, le ntokazi ilambileyo ayizange ikhathazeke ukuyivumela ukuba ibone amakhubalo ayo. Kuphela ebengalindelanga ukuba asondele ngolo hlobo empundu ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa yayiyimbuyekezo yenkanuko yakhe.