Ukuthetha inyani, xa kujongwa iminyaka yalo bhuti nodade, iqhelekile into yokuba lo mzalwana avukwe kukubona le ntombazana ihamba ze phambi kwakhe. Mhlawumbi okwenzekileyo ngokulandelayo akuyonxalenye yezicwangciso zesiqhelo, kodwa ndixelele ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaba ungabuchasa ubuhle obunjalo obuneenwele ezimnyama? Yiloo nto ndiyithethayo.
Umlindi ulungile - uyazikhuthaza ngomvuzo omnandi. Le ayibambayo yile ayifumeneyo. Isela lalingenangxaki nalo – lakhululwa. Kwaye onke amantshontsho kufuneka akwazi ukumunca ama-dicks - into ephambili kukuba awakhuthaze ngokufanelekileyo. Kufuneka kwakhona uphucule izakhono zakho zobungcali. Ngaphandle koko uya kuhlala ubonelela ngeenkonzo zesondo simahla.
Ukuba ukhupha umqhagi wakhe omkhulu kuyo yonke impazamo aze ayibethele kwisicakakazi sakhe, ndiyazibuza nokuba umhlawula malini? Okanye ngeentsuku ezinje, masizibize ziintsuku zokuhlolwa, ngaba umvuzo wohlukile? Nangona kunjalo, ngubani oya kuxhathisa ubuhle obunjalo, owajika waba yingcali enkulu kungekhona nje ekucoceni, kodwa nakwiindawo zokulala. Ngeetalente ezinjalo wayeya kufumana umsebenzi kwenye indawo - ephethe iingalo ezandleni zabo!
Unethamsanqa engakhange azifumane iinwele zikadadewabo kwincakuba yakhe. Udade omhle ngolo hlobo wayenokufundiswa isifundo aze afundiswe isifundo. Kubonakala ngathi uzakube emshiyela iinwele rhoqo ngoku.